Dating a loser test
A relationship with the wrong individual however can lead to years of heartache, emotional/social damage, and even physical damage.
As you may know, I wrote The Tao of Dating: The Smart Woman’s Guide to Being Absolutely Irresistible partially out of the frustration of seeing so many of my fabulous female friends who were dating duds, not dudes. I’d like to make it clear that if items 5-7 have happened EVEN ONCE – and I really do mean even just once – you have a duty to yourself, to your friends, to your family and to the world to get out of this relationship, like, . It’s like you’ve been eating at Subway every day and thinking, “Well, this is alright – what do I have to complain about?This relationship test is inspired by the list of 20 questions included in Dr Carver’s famous article “Are You Dating a Loser?It is not a diagnostic test and is intended solely to help you identify aspects of your relationship experience which Dr Carver has associated with hurtful relationships and potentially, at particularly high levels, with the types of abuse sometimes linked to personality disorders.Very few relationships start on terms other than sweetness and politeness.In the beginning, “the honeymoon” of the relationship, it’s difficult to determine what type of individual you are dating.